Thinking About Divorce?
If you are thinking about divorce or experiencing a family breakdown, we can provide legal advice.
What to do if you are thinking about divorce
If a you are thinking about divorce or separation, you may be feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or simply unsure where to start. Many people arrive at this point after months (sometimes years) of trying to make things work.
At Winston Solicitors, we understand that thinking about divorce is rarely a sudden decision. It is often part of a much bigger picture involving your family, your finances, and your future. You do not need to have all the answers yet. A calm conversation can help you understand your options and decide what feels right for you.
At a glance
- Talk things through before making decisions
- Understand divorce, separation and alternatives
- Get clear, honest legal guidance
- Support from trusted family solicitors
When divorce starts to feel like a possibility
Divorce is not just a legal process. It is an emotional one too. You may be worrying about your children, your home, your finances, or what life might look like for you after your divorce has been finalised.
Some people contact us because:
- Communication has broken down
- Trust has been damaged
- Living together has become difficult
- They want clarity, not confrontation
Whatever has brought you here, it is okay to take time to explore your options before committing to a particular path.
You do not always have to divorce straight away
Not everyone who contacts us is ready to start a divorce application. In some cases, understanding the process, the types of orders that can be made and the various ways of resolving all issues can be the right first step.
Our family law team can help you understand:
- What the divorce process entails
- How disputes concerning both children and finances matters are usually dealt with and considered
- What you should (and should not) do at an early stage
Having clear information often reduces anxiety and helps people regain a sense of control.
Putting children first when divorce is on your mind
If you have children, they are likely at the heart of your concerns. Many parents worry about how separation or divorce will affect their children and what arrangements might look like moving forward.
We take a child-focused approach and can talk you through:
- Child arrangements and decision-making
- How the courts approach disputes concerning the arrangements for the future care of children
- Ways to reduce conflict and protect stability
Our aim is to help families move forward in a way that prioritises children’s wellbeing.
Clear advice, without pressure
Speaking to a solicitor does not mean you have to take immediate action. Many people contact us simply to understand their position and consider their next steps.
At Winston Solicitors, we are known for:
- Listening carefully
- Explaining the law in simple terms
- Being honest about options and likely outcomes
- Supporting clients at their own pace
You’ll never be pushed into a decision. We are here to guide you when divorce is on your mind, not rush you.
How we can support you
Our experienced Family Law team advises clients at every stage of relationship breakdown, from early concerns through to formal proceedings when needed.
We can help with:
- Divorce and civil partnership dissolution
- Separation and interim arrangements
- Disputes in respect of the arrangements for children
- Financial matters
If you decide to move forward, you will have expert legal support every step of the way.
Take the next step when you are ready
If a separation or commencing a divorce application is on your mind, you do not have to work things out alone. A confidential conversation can help you gain clarity and feel more confident about what comes next.
To speak to our Family Law team, call 0113 320 5000 or email family@winstonsolicitors.co.uk. We are here to listen and support you, whatever stage you are at.
No. Many people speak to us while they are still thinking things through. Our role is to help you understand your options so you can make informed decisions when you feel ready.
Not at all. Early advice often helps reduce conflict by setting expectations and exploring constructive options. At Winston Solicitors, we focus on clear, practical guidance and avoiding unnecessary escalation wherever possible.
You can speak to us in complete confidence. Many clients seek initial advice privately before deciding how or when to have conversations with their partner.
Every family is different, but the courts focus on children’s welfare above all else. We help parents understand how arrangements are approached and how to minimise disruption for children during a difficult time.
No. There is no obligation to start a divorce application after seeking advice. Some people decide to separate first, some reconcile, and others proceed with divorce once they feel certain.
