Some couples want to separate, but not divorce or dissolve their civil partnership straightaway.
There are many reasons why separation may be preferable, such as if you have not yet been married for a full year, if you have drifted apart or if you do not want to blame the other by referring to adultery, or behaviour you find unreasonable, and would prefer to divorce on the basis of separation.
You have three choices when you separate:
Separate physically and take no legal steps: If you do so, you are not protected against a claim for money made by your husband or wife within a divorce. So if you get a better job, inherit money or buy a new home, these things are not protected financially in the event of a later divorce.
Have a legally binding written agreement about money: This is called a Deed of Separation which we can prepare for you. It will protect you from financial claims being made by your spouse within a divorce.
To judicially separate: This legal process is not commonly relied upon. You remain married and follow a legal process similar to divorce. This is a process that we can guide you through. However, few people judicially separate as many would then go on to divorce at a later stage, and so incur the cost of two different legal procedures.
There are however some clients who would prefer a judicial separation. For instance for religious reasons the client may not wish to go through a divorce but still wishes the Court to deal with the financial issues arising from the breakdown of their marriage. However, it should be noted that the Court has no power to make a pension share order on a judicial separation.
We can help you by talking through the options available and assist in making the decision that is the best route for you. We can further assist you in taking the appropriate action to achieve the outcome which you desire.
A paper divorce is currently taking around 9-12 months. Online it takes around 4-5 months.
Child maintenance is usually governed by the Child Maintenance Service and there are only certain times when the court will make orders regarding child maintenance or child periodical payments. Spousal maintenance or spousal periodical payments can be made in financial proceedings and will depend on the circumstances of the case.
Research tells us that arrangements agreed between the parties are much more likely to succeed if they are made by consent. However, where one parent does not agree to those arrangements you may need to try mediation, arbitration or ultimately court proceedings to help you sort these arrangements.