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Cohabitation - Clear Legal Advice for Living Together

Cohabitation (living together without marrying) is increasingly common. However, many couples living together, known as cohabitees, are surprised to learn that there is no such thing as a “common law marriage” in England and Wales.

If your relationship ends, your legal rights are very different from those of a married couple. At Winston Solicitors, we help cohabiting couples or those who plan to cohabit to understand their legal position, protect what matters, and plan with confidence.

At a glance

  • Understand your rights when living together
  • Understand your rights when planning to live together
  • Protect property, savings and investments
  • Get correct advice if a living together arrangement ends
  • Plan ahead with a cohabitation agreement
  • Support from trusted family law solicitors

What does cohabitation mean in law?

Cohabitation describes couples who live together but are not married or in a civil partnership. Despite common belief, living together for many years does not give you the same legal rights as marriage in fact no rights arise from simply living together.

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If you separate, the law does not automatically provide financial protection for either partner. That is why getting accurate advice at an early stage is so important, especially where property, children or unequal contributions to the property are involved.

Why cohabiting couples can be financially vulnerable

When a relationship breaks down, unmarried couples do not automatically have financial claims in the way that divorcing spouses have. This can come as a shock, particularly if one partner feels they have made sacrifices to support family life or they have made financial contributions that are recorded or not taken account of for legal purposes.

Common issues we help with include:

  • Joint financial contributions to a property owned in one cohabitee’s name
  • Disputes about shares in jointly owned property
  • Unequal contributions to deposits or mortgages
  • The right to remain in a property after relationship breakdown
  • Financial provision for children

Our family law team focuses on finding practical, proportionate solutions that reflect your circumstances.

Property and cohabitation disputes

Property is often the biggest area of concern when cohabiting couples separate. The legal outcome depends on evidence of ownership of intentions, and evidence of financial contributions, not fairness alone.

We can advise you on:

  • Whether you may have a beneficial interest in a property (from contributions made to a property that is owned in someone else’s name).
  • How ownership shares are calculated
  • What evidence is relevant, including financial contributions
  • Your options if agreement cannot be reached

Clear advice at an early stage can prevent disputes escalating and becoming costly and stressful.

Cohabitation agreements - planning with confidence

A cohabitation agreement allows you and your partner to agree before you live together how finances, property and financial responsibilities will be dealt with if your relationship ends and specifically if there is any intention to share the.

These agreements are particularly helpful where:

  • The parties are investing unequally into the property
  • A property is owned by one partner only
  • The property will be a home for children from previous relationships
  • Family wealth or inheritance invested into the property needs protection

At Winston Solicitors, we prepare tailored agreements that are clear, balanced and designed to stand up to scrutiny.

How we can help

Our experienced family law team provides clear, practical advice for couples before, during and after cohabitation ends.

We can help you with:

  • Advice before moving in together
  • Drafting and reviewing cohabitation agreements
  • Property and financial disputes after separation
  • Claims and arrangements relating to children

We take time to understand your situation and explain your options in plain English, so you can make informed decisions with confidence.

No. In England and Wales, cohabiting couples do not acquire the same legal rights as married couples, regardless of how long they live together. Our family law team regularly helps clients who are surprised by this and want to understand how the law applies to their situation.

Possibly, but it depends on the facts and evidence. Claims are often based on financial contributions or shared intentions, and these cases can be complex. We can assess your position and advise on the strength of any potential claim.

TOLATA stands for the Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996. It is the law used to resolve property disputes between unmarried couples. Our solicitors are experienced in advising on TOLATA claims and negotiating practical outcomes wherever possible.

A declaration of trust is a legal document that sets out who owns what share of a jointly owned property. It provides clarity and can prevent disputes as to ownership later on. We often recommend this where couples contribute differently to a property purchase.

Joint tenants own the whole property together with a presumption that they own it in equal shares, while tenants in common own defined shares and these shares can often be unequal. The distinction can affect what happens if you separate or one partner dies. We can explain which arrangement is right for you and ensure it reflects your intentions.

In some circumstances, yes. Agreements must be fair, properly prepared and entered into freely with both parties having the opportunity to take appropriate legal advice. At Winston Solicitors, we take care to draft agreements that are robust, clear and tailored to your individual circumstances.

Client feedback

Harriet Reid dealt with my divorce aided by her excellent assistant Judith Pearson. Both Harriet and Judith were incredibly quick to respond to any questions or concerns I had during the process. I found Harriet to be ideal for me to talk to as she was direct enough to be able to explain what was happening in "plain English" rather than "legal jargon" and to point out the actions I should and shouldn't take. The process is extremely emotive and a calm understanding advisor is essential.
Richard
I chose Winston Solicitors following a strong recommendation from a close friend, and I have been extremely impressed with the service I received throughout both my divorce proceedings and house sale.A special thank you goes to Teresa and Emily in the Family Law team, who were outstanding from start to finish. Teresa consistently kept me informed about costs and the next steps in the process, which I found incredibly reassuring during what was a very challenging time. Her knowledge, expertise, and professionalism were exceptional, and I am extremely grateful to have had her representing me throughout. Emily’s communication was excellent; she was always prompt, professional, and supportive. Together, they provided guidance and reassurance that made a difficult situation far more manageable.I would also like to thank Laura and Amanda in the Conveyancing Department for their excellent work on my house sale. Their professionalism, efficiency, and attention to detail ensured that everything progressed smoothly from beginning to end.I am genuinely grateful for the support I received from everyone involved and would highly recommend Winston Solicitors to anyone seeking expert legal advice and representation. Their dedication, communication, and client care were outstanding throughout.
Jason
During such a difficult and stressful time I found Winston Solicitors excellent. I worked with Wendy throughout my divorce she was incredible, supportive, hard working and extremely knowledgeable. No question was too silly , no problem was too great for her. I trusted her advice 100% and was more than happy to take her lead. She held my hand every step of the way and for that I will be forever grateful. I have already recommended her to others and will continue to do so. I wouldn't hesitate to use Winston Solicitors in the future
Louise
I am extremely grateful for the support and guidance I received throughout my financial consent order process.Wendy was direct, practical, and very human in her approach. She handled my matter personally, which made a huge difference. I did not feel like I was being passed between assistants or treated like just another case. I felt properly listened to and supported.This was an extremely stressful process for me, but I trusted Wendy completely. Her advice was clear and realistic, and she helped me understand what mattered and how best to move forward.The wording she used in my consent order was particularly strong. She understood my situation accurately and phrased it in a way that clearly explained the reality of the marriage and the financial arrangements. I believe this careful and intelligent wording helped the court understand the case properly and approve the order.I recommend Wendy very highly. She made a very stressful process feel less overwhelming and helped me achieve the outcome I needed.
Anna.
Very professional put me at ease straightaway very helpful I would definitely use Winston’s again and would recommend them to family and friends
Shirley
Harriet Reid went above and beyond throughout the whole process. Her patience, professionalism and impeccable handing of the matter made a stessful situation much easier to bear. Her advice was spot on at all points and the proactive approach was much appreciated. I would not hesitate to recommend Harriet and her team and cannot thank them enough for their support and guidance from start to finnish.
Lisa
Harriet dealt with my problem swiftly and efficiently. I would award her more stars if I could.
Jane
Extremely helpful, efficient & worked within extreme tight deadlines.
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